200 Would You Rather Relationship Questions

Navigating the early stages of a romantic relationship can often feel like trying to solve an intricate puzzle. It's a period of discovery, filled with excitement, curiosity, and a few doses of uncertainty. One of the most enjoyable and effective ways to get to know your potential partner is through meaningful and fun conversations.

Enter the 'Would You Rather' game - a simple yet profound tool that can unlock a treasure trove of insights about your partner's preferences, thought processes, and character. This game not only opens the door to deeper understanding but also lightens the mood, infusing laughter and warmth into your interactions.

We have compiled a list of 200 'Would You Rather' questions designed specifically for new couples or people getting to know each other before dating. The questions range from serious to funny, covering a variety of topics that will help you decode the delightful enigma that is your potential partner. Whether it's understanding their preferences in music, their taste in food, or their sense of humor, these questions will surely bring you two closer, fostering a connection that's both deep and enjoyable. So, let's dive in, and remember - it's not about winning or losing, it's about understanding and connecting. Enjoy the journey!

200 Would You Rather Relationship Questions

1. Would you rather go on a hike or watch a movie for our next date?

2. Would you rather have a partner who is a professional chef or a professional masseuse?

3. Would you rather only eat pizza for every meal with me or never eat pizza again?

4. Would you rather spend a day without your phone or a day without me?

5. Would you rather only communicate in rhyme with me or only in movie quotes?

6. Would you rather get stuck in an elevator or on a ski lift with me?

7. Would you rather have a partner who has an excellent sense of humor or is incredibly intelligent?

8. Would you rather play a game of paintball or mini golf for our date?

9. Would you rather travel back in time to meet my younger self or to the future to meet my older self?

10. Would you rather go to a fancy dress party as a superhero or as a villain?

11. Would you rather be with someone who snores loudly or talks in their sleep?

12. Would you rather lose all of our photos together or never be able to take new ones?

13. Would you rather have a partner who is always 20 minutes late or 20 minutes early?

14. Would you rather be with someone who constantly overuses emojis or never uses them?

15. Would you rather have a partner who is a great dancer but can't sing, or a great singer but can't dance?

16. Would you rather have a partner who is extremely organized or extremely spontaneous?

17. Would you rather live in a treehouse or a houseboat with me?

18. Would you rather have a partner who always forgets your birthday or our anniversary?

19. Would you rather have a partner who only wears bright colors or only wears black?

20. Would you rather have a partner who always laughs at your jokes or always laughs at their own jokes?

21. Would you rather have a partner who is a great artist or a great musician?

22. Would you rather go on a blindfolded date or a silent date?

23. Would you rather have a partner who loves roller coasters or is afraid of them?

24. Would you rather go to a costume party dressed as each other or as a famous couple?

25. Would you rather have a partner who can predict the future or read minds?

26. Would you rather go to a karaoke bar or a trivia night for our date?

27. Would you rather be with someone who can speak every language or play every instrument?

28. Would you rather have a partner who always wins at board games or lets you win?

29. Would you rather have a partner who is a morning person or a night owl?

30. Would you rather be with someone who loves reality TV or documentaries?

31. Would you rather give up coffee or chocolate for a month?

32. Would you rather have a partner who can't cook but tries or doesn't cook at all?

33. Would you rather date someone who is always overdressed or underdressed?

34. Would you rather have a partner who is obsessed with cats or with dogs?

35. Would you rather have a partner who loves outdoor adventures or indoor activities?

36. Would you rather go to an opera or a wrestling match for our date?

37. Would you rather be with someone who loves to read or loves to write?

38. Would you rather have a partner who can't tell a lie or knows when you're lying?

39. Would you rather go on a date in a hot air balloon or a submarine?

40. Would you rather be with someone who always agrees with you or always challenges you?

41. Would you rather have a partner who loves spicy food or sweet food?

42. Would you rather have a night out in the city or a quiet evening at home?

43. Would you rather cook dinner together or order takeout?

44. Would you rather discuss personal life goals on the first date or wait until we know each other better?

45. Would you rather travel by plane or by train for a vacation?

46. Would you rather have a long distance relationship or prefer to live in the same city?

47. Would you rather have a partner who is a professional athlete or a famous actor?

48. Would you rather have a partner who always forgets where they parked or loses their keys?

49. Would you rather always have to say everything on your mind or never speak again?

50. Would you rather have a partner who loves winter sports or summer sports?

51. Would you rather be with someone who sings all the time or talks to animals?

52. Would you rather have a partner who collects unusual things or has no interest in collecting anything?

53. Would you rather have a partner who is always busy or always bored?

54. Would you rather go on a date to a haunted house or an escape room?

55. Would you rather have a partner who is a superhero or a supervillain?

56. Would you rather have a partner who always takes selfies or never takes any photos?

57. Would you rather have a partner who is a terrible driver but great navigator or vice versa?

58. Would you rather have a partner who is always too hot or always too cold?

59. Would you rather live without music or without TV?

60. Would you rather be with someone who is extremely neat or extremely messy?

61. Would you rather have a partner who always leaves the toilet seat up or never replaces the toilet paper roll?

62. Would you rather have a partner who can't stop talking or hardly says a word?

63. Would you rather go on a date at a circus or a magic show?

64. Would you rather have a partner who is extremely loud or extremely quiet?

65. Would you rather have a partner who can't stop laughing or can't stop crying at movies?

66. Would you rather be with someone who loves junk food or health food?

67. Would you rather be with someone who is always late or always early?

68. Would you rather go on a date at a zoo or an aquarium?

69. Would you rather have a partner who can't stop telling dad jokes or puns?

70. Would you rather have a partner who is a professional clown or a professional mime?

71. Would you rather have a partner who constantly quotes Shakespeare or Star Wars?

72. Would you rather go on a date in a castle or on a pirate ship?

73. Would you rather have a partner who is a vampire or a werewolf?

74. Would you rather have a partner who can't stop hiccuping or sneezing?

75. Would you rather have a partner who constantly sings off-key or talks in rhymes?

76. Would you rather have a partner who believes in aliens or ghosts?

77. Would you rather have a partner who can only whisper or can only shout?

78. Would you rather have a partner who is a professional wrestler or a professional ballet dancer?

79. Would you rather have a partner who thinks they're a pirate or a ninja?

80. Would you rather go on a date to a medieval fair or a sci-fi convention?

81. Would you rather have a partner who always wears mismatched socks or never wears socks?

82. Would you rather have a partner who speaks like Shakespeare or Yoda?

83. Would you rather have a partner who has an imaginary friend or talks to plants?

84. Would you rather have a partner who dresses like it's the 1980s or the 1880s?

85. Would you rather be with someone who is a mermaid or a unicorn in their free time?

86. Would you rather have a partner who uses way too much cologne/perfume or none at all?

87. Would you rather have a partner who eats food too spicy or too bland?

88. Would you rather be with someone who only watches sci-fi or horror movies?

89. Would you rather be completely silent for a day or talk non-stop for a day?

90. Would you rather watch a romantic movie or a horror movie?

91. Would you rather go on a double date with friends or have a date just for the two of us?

92. Would you rather be with someone who is extremely optimistic or extremely realistic?

93. Would you rather have a partner who is a great cook or a great masseuse?

94. Would you rather discuss our past relationships early on or never talk about them?

95. Would you rather text all day or talk on the phone for an hour?

96. Would you rather go to a concert or a sporting event?

97. Would you rather have a partner who always wants to play board games or video games?

98. Would you rather have a partner who always takes the stairs or always takes the elevator?

99. Would you rather go on a date to a pottery class or a cooking class?

100. Would you rather have a partner who is always singing show tunes or heavy metal songs?

101. Would you rather have a partner who is obsessed with their job or with their hobby?

102. Would you rather have a partner who always dresses in costume or never dresses up?

103. Would you rather go on a date to a haunted graveyard or a creepy forest at night?

104. Would you rather have a partner who has a pet tarantula or a pet python?

105. Would you rather have a partner who always orders the weirdest thing on the menu or always orders the same thing?

106. Would you rather be with someone who always loses their wallet or their phone?

107. Would you rather have a partner who can never tell a lie or never keeps a secret?

108. Would you rather have a partner who always talks in their sleep or sleepwalks?

109. Would you rather have a partner who insists on doing magic tricks or telling knock-knock jokes?

110. Would you rather have a partner who always leaves the cap off the toothpaste or squeezes it from the middle?

111. Would you rather go on a date to a comic book convention or a Renaissance fair?

112. Would you rather have a partner who can only speak in haikus or in riddles?

113. Would you rather have a partner who always forgets your name or always calls you by a weird nickname?

114. Would you rather have a partner who believes they are an alien or a superhero?

115. Would you rather surprise me with a date plan or have us plan one together

116. Would you rather have a beach vacation or a mountain retreat?

117. Would you rather go to a fancy, expensive restaurant or a simple, cheap, but good quality diner?

118. Would you rather have a partner who is extremely outgoing or someone who is more of an introvert?

119. Would you rather reveal your biggest secret or your biggest fear?

120. Would you rather be proposed to in public or in private?

121. Would you rather have a small circle of close friends or a large group of acquaintances?

122. Would you rather date someone who is very close to their family or someone who values their independence?

123. Would you rather spend the day outdoors or inside?

124. Would you rather be with someone who is a night owl or an early bird?

125. Would you rather have a partner who loves to dance or who loves to sing?

126. Would you rather have a picnic in the park or a rooftop dinner?

127. Would you rather celebrate our anniversary with a gift or with an experience?

128. Would you rather have a partner who enjoys reading or watching movies?

129. Would you rather visit a museum or an amusement park?

130. Would you rather have a partner who enjoys staying in shape or doesn't mind a few extra pounds?

131. Would you rather be with someone who is a great listener or a great speaker?

132. Would you rather watch the sunrise or sunset together?

133. Would you rather play a board game or video game together?

134. Would you rather go camping or stay in a hotel?

135. Would you rather adopt a pet together or have a plant?

136. Would you rather spend the holidays with my family or yours?

137. Would you rather have a partner who is very tidy or someone who is more laid-back about cleanliness?

138. Would you rather go on a road trip or fly to our destination?

139. Would you rather go to a comedy club or a jazz bar?

140. Would you rather have a partner who prefers the city life or the country life?

141. Would you rather be with someone who is into sports or someone who is into arts?

142. Would you rather make decisions jointly or have one person take the lead?

143. Would you rather have a serious conversation face-to-face or over the phone?

144. Would you rather have a big wedding or elope?

145. Would you rather have a partner who is very romantic or very practical?

146. Would you rather be with someone who is career-focused or family-oriented?

147. Would you rather go to a party or stay home and watch Netflix?

148. Would you rather have a partner who loves traveling or prefers staying close to home?

149. Would you rather work on a DIY project or hire someone to do it?

150. Would you rather be with someone who is a spender or a saver?

151. Would you rather have a partner who is into fitness or into food?

152. Would you rather go out for breakfast or stay in bed for a late brunch?

153. Would you rather be with someone who always agrees with you or challenges your ideas?

154. Would you rather visit a new city or revisit a favorite one?

155. Would you rather have a partner who is spontaneous or likes to plan ahead?

156. Would you rather try a new cuisine or stick to your favorite foods?

157. Would you rather go to a loud, lively bar or a quiet, intimate pub?

158. Would you rather have a partner who is great at giving gifts or writing heartfelt letters?

159. Would you rather have a partner who enjoys extreme sports or quiet hobbies?

160. Would you rather move to another country for love or stay in your hometown?

161. Would you rather have a partner who is an excellent cook or an excellent driver?

162. Would you rather learn a new language or a new instrument together?

163. Would you rather live in a big city or a small town?

164. Would you rather date someone who's into science fiction or romantic novels?

165. Would you rather have a partner who's into photography or painting?

166. Would you rather go on a safari or a cruise?

167. Would you rather have a partner who prefers tea or coffee?

168. Would you rather have a partner who's an expert at fixing things or at decorating?

169. Would you rather be with someone who has the same taste in music or completely different?

170. Would you rather go to a fancy dress party or a casual house party?

171. Would you rather live in a place with a cold climate or a hot one?

172. Would you rather go to the cinema or watch a movie at home?

173. Would you rather have a partner who is a dog person or a cat person?

174. Would you rather spend a day at the spa or at an amusement park?

175. Would you rather try skydiving or scuba diving together?

176. Would you rather have a partner who is great at singing or at dancing?

177. Would you rather go for a morning run or an evening walk together?

178. Would you rather have a partner who prefers sweet or savory foods?

179. Would you rather date someone who likes the same sports team or an opposing one?

180. Would you rather have a partner who likes to take the lead or follow?

181. Would you rather date someone who's into classic movies or modern blockbusters?

182. Would you rather go on a weekend getaway to a cabin in the woods or a resort by the beach?

183. Would you rather have a partner who likes to host parties or attend them?

184. Would you rather have a partner who prefers wine or beer?

185. Would you rather be with someone who prefers books or video games?

186. Would you rather be with someone who likes going to the gym or doing yoga?

187. Would you rather have a partner who likes dressing up or prefers casual attire?

188. Would you rather go to a music festival or a food festival?

189. Would you rather have a partner who enjoys gardening or home renovation projects?

190. Would you rather date someone who is into history or technology?

191. Would you rather go to a rock concert or a classical music concert?

192. Would you rather be with someone who is a minimalist or a collector?

193. Would you rather have a partner who likes camping or luxury vacations?

194. Would you rather date someone who loves cooking or loves eating?

195. Would you rather go to a comedy show or a magic show?

196. Would you rather be with someone who is passionate about politics or indifferent?

197. Would you rather be with someone who enjoys volunteering or someone who is entrepreneurial?

198. Would you rather date someone who likes to write or likes to read?

199. Would you rather go on a hot air balloon ride or a helicopter tour?

200. Would you rather have a partner who loves the beach or the mountains?